Sunday, November 9, 2008

Sleepless in Bettie

For the past week, we've been sleepless in Bettie. Right here is the reason...
We've tried everything to get him to go to bed. We've tried walking him back to bed and threatening to spank, we've tried sitting next to his bed and rubbing his back, we've tried laying down with him (which he continues to play, while you fall asleep and wake up 2 hours later to find he's done the same), and we've even tried the Super Nanny thing where you just walk him back to bed without speaking to him....All in vain my friend. Not consistent enough or whatever, we just couldn't get him to go to sleep. So, 5 nights, countless hours of sleep lost, minus all of the schoolwork I could have been doing, and 1 night spent on the couch, we finally did the unthinkable. We closed his door. Now, I really don't want to give him a complex, but we don't have our kid gates here (they're still in Robersonville) and I really don't want to freak him out, but he slept with his door closed from last September until we moved here in April. So really he's used to it. And he has a night light. So, we finally just did it. He cried for less than 5 minutes and he was OUT like a light. Oh and the new little toddler bed we bought him, nope, not interested. So he's sleeping in Roman's twin sized car bed and Roman, who wanted the new toddler bed when Raiden first got it b/c it's Lightning McQueen, is in his. So, the little one is in the big one and the big in little. Oh well, it's 11 o'clock and they've been asleep for a few hours, that's all that counts, right?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love catching up with you via your blog or facebook, so please keep pluggin along. I know where you're coming from with the bedtime thing. You are a wonderful mommy. Keep up the good work. God will reward you. I love you and look forward to seeing you again real soon, Beth T

cadovius said...

I'm sorry it's been so tough. We had the SAME problem with Erick. We spanked for a good 6 months and just continuously kept putting him back in his bed while not speaking to him. Then, finally, he stayed in bed. STRONG-WILLED child...that's what he is and he proved it. But we won that battle. I cried MANY nights thinking I'd never sleep again.
I'm glad yall solved the problem...and yeah, you tried every method we tried.